Thursday, October 31, 2019

(Oct 19) Happy 4th Birthday, Jun and Happy 8th Month, Mei mei.



And so we celebrated Jun's 4th birthday at Marzuki. A quiet small affair with the extended family who simply adored all the kids. Jun chose a Paw Patrol cake from Bengawan Solo. Had wanted him to buy the smaller cakes (1kg cost $40!) but he insisted on having this design and the minimum weight required was 2 kg. 


So we ended with a lot of surplus and all the aunties and we had to bring a box of cake home to eat. 


Jun, you had been a joy to the family. Just signed him up for the PCF kindy at 226 Pending Road. Arise just informed us recently that they would be converting into a childcare eventually so they would only be offering an AM session next year and there would be various options in 2021 for the childcare. Nay...we would just go the PM session in the PCF kindy (bonus: it cost $170 per month vs $1095 for 10 weeks in Arise)


Xiaoshu made use of the kids in his WhatsApp profile pic. He said it was a good starter conversation for new clients for they would always ask if all the kids were his. 4 kor poh said we should charge him for the usage.


On a cool balmy Sunday afternoon...mei was all nestled up and cosy in papa's chest while listening to the soothing sermon from the pastor


yeah and papa was dozing too..haha


Went to the pool at Bukit Panjang CC on a PSLE marking day (aka school holiday) only to find out that it was undergoing renovation. Ha, we bumped into Coach Alex!


Brought Jun to Jurong East to check out if the Singtel shops there carried free phones for recontracted plans...well, he really liked the pandas and requested for the photos



hereby, this place was christened the panda place whenever I wanted to let him know where we were heading to...


Went to gor gor's school for his drama performance. Gor was not too keen on dancing, but oh he could narrate really beautifully. He was not given any role except to read in the background with all the rest, so it seemed like he was not super enthusiastic.



Ha, all the penguins looked alike. The other time, Jie acted as a ghost and was in black and white with similar make up too!



Our precious bundle of joy. She would be really sticky to mama when we were at home at times. However, she would be content with playing alone when we were at Wai po's house so Wai po commented that she was really easy to look after.


Hmmm...why did the kids behave so beautifully at Wai po's house but got all cranky and whiny at home? Grrrrrr.


We went to Wild Wild Wet during the Deepavali holiday. Ha, even Mei Mei got to enjoy playing in the water playground with Jun and at the water sprinklers!


It was a really good deal. I bought a promotional booklet for $27 and $6 for an extra child ticket for Jun from Carousell. The normal peak hour tickets would have cost us $136! ha I was such a savvy shopper. The kids enjoyed themselves so much that they asked to come again.


It was also unfortunate that it started raining 2 hours into the adventure. 


The big ones had only taken a few slides as the queues were long. 





Well, at least they got to go in the lazy river.





Mei was so quiet and contented to be in papa's bosom. 




Was glad that they had a whale of a time.






Serendipitously, there was a Royal Sporting House sale at Downtown East so mama had a rollicking time buying heavily discounted goods ($5 Zaxy shoes for mei mei). Papa also scored a pair of white Sperry shoes at $29. Xun bought two pairs of Ipanema slippers. Poor tong and Jun had nothing to show for the shopping jaunt though. hahahaa. 


Ta da - mei mei's shoe collection. I actually missed out one pair which was bought at the sale. They looked so cute eh? Could not wait to see her pitter-pattering in those adorable shoes. 


She could bear her weight on her two stocky legs very well. I believed it would not be a long time before she was scooting everywhere.


Jun was tasked to bring the laundry from the bathroom every day. He was very sharp and considerate. When he noticed that I did not leave my Pjs on the floor for him to take away, he would always check with me if I had changed and needed him to bring away the clothes. I liked such initiative. He would do very well in the service industry. 

I always talked with Papa about how different all of you were, that you were born with a certain bent. Jie - the achiever who wanted to excel for the sake of feeling good at being good. Intrinsically motivated. A goody two shoe...quite indifferent at times, being engrossed in her books mostly, but we were teaching her to be empathetic and to take more initiative in showing care for the younger ones.

Tong - Driven by external benefits. displayed dogged determination when he yearned for something (he badgered the rest into sharing the cost of the new Beyblade arena. Ya all of you were so taken by the beyblads, that you had more than 10 blades and would be acquiring more! Afternoons were spent battling...well, at least you truly enjoyed playing together. Tong would make a shrewd businessman (he once made Xun trade all her pokemons for the single Jiggly Puff he had in his collection.) Audacious, money-conscious, shrewd...a nose for bargaining..haha but we were teaching you to read people's reactions so that you knew when you should step off before you annoyed us till we snapped. ha...your performance during the recent soccer matches was lackluster. You had chosen to drop out of the Alpha Team and was in the Bravo team competing in division 3. But it seemed like you just sank to being the average wherever you found yourself. Perhaps team sports were not suitable for you as you liked to be a big fish in a small pond and you liked personal glory. Well mama promised that you could get 3 free pokemon games if you scored or assisted a goal and you had been on fire since. Ha

Jun - endearing and pleasing...mostly soft-spoken and very mild-mannered. I bet you would do well in the service industry, being the people-oriented person that you were.

Mei mei - our cutest littlest bundle. You were very responsive and could read people very well too. There was once when papa reprimanded you for crying a lot while mama bathed and you dared not even meet his gaze. You yelped in joy and crawled towards Ah gong when he brought the older ones to Wai po's house...you were easier to look after, Ah Gong could pat you to sleep too. You only wanted Ah Ma to carry you at Marzuki, giving ah Gong the cold shoulder. In fact, when Ah Gong approached you, you would give a blank gaze, looked past him, or looked at the floor to avoid eye contact, much to the amusement of the adults. At a tender age of 7 months, you knew how to pretend to look beyond a person and pretend that he was invisible? 

 And before we knew it, it was 1 November. Just two weeks later, the school holidays would start and we would be caught up in the festivities again. Woo hooo and the Taiwan trip with the cousins too. and 2019 would be over....when papa and mama were young and schooling, 2020 was like a milestone that we talked about in our essays. "What do you think the world would be like in 2020?" It felt so faraway then...yet we were on the precipice of it now...the world that we knew now was so different from the one we inhabited...2020....a brand new era....a brand new start. Looking forward to 2020 with all of you.

(Sep 19) Mummy turned 38! Mei mei turned 7 months old!


Something to remind myself when days were tough...mei mei was having sleep regression...she slept badly at night and napped for a very short while in the afternoons...She was often fussy and whiny in the day and clung to me like a koala most of the time... oh well...this would also pass.


The soccer tournament had started. 


Ate at a vegetarian restaurant (opened by our tenant). Food was delicious. Ended the day with a scrumptious ever popular ice cream cake.



Ah...another cake. I got this cake for free due to the AIA voucher given by Uncle HuiMin. Yum, super decadent chocolatey cake.



Ah...photos of the two little ones who spent their day...just bugging mummy in the day while the big ones were at school...



They were into the pokemon game recently. Bumped into someone who actually researched into this and came up with a cheat sheet...nay, the kids could not be bothered. They just used the most powerful ones they had most of the time. 


Ah... she was growing up so fast...


Mei mei was amazingly perceptive and responsive for her age. She could read people's feelings well and was always eager to talk and smile at people, even strangers. 



Erm...gosh...this was a photo from years ago...Xiao Yi commented that she could not even see her eyes! GOsh, look at that fringe.



Tried to improvise a safety helmet for mei who had been bumping her head quite a lot! Nay, she did not like it and pulled it off.


Oh 7 months! Wooo hooo. Was wondering if I had forgotten to take this photo. But yeah! Perhaps about 65 cm and 8 kg? Hmmmmm….


Happy 7th month, baby.


We could not believe that you were with us for only 7 months. 


We love you to the moon and back.


AH...a meal at Spize (Temasek Club)


Well...nice meal to end the weekend!



XUn took this photo for us...


Tong must have a turn, of course!


See, still awake when it was close to midnight. If she could entertain herself and mama could do her work, that would be fine. But not when mama still needed to keep an eye on her...and the compositions sat there untouched. Alas, I hated marking compositions.


Well..baby, when would you go to bed?


It was futile to fight against the ZZZ monster. look at those droopy eyes...




Children's Day celebration at church

Stumbled upon this Health Promotion Board event at the atrium of Plaza. Had to spend $60 to redeem tickets for xun and tong. Poor Jun could not play as he was too young.


The best part was this giant inflatable.




Had to solve some puzzles




Ha, life-sized futsal table



Well, Jun chose to go to the inflatable at the fun fair outside Hillion Mall since he could not get to play at Plaza.




The big ones said they would pay for their own fees as they wanted to join Jun. I believed in making the children pay for extra privileges such as this so that they would make wise decisions about spending money and treasure the experiences! Ha


This was how the inflatable looked like. 


The very greedy mei mei. She loved to munch on our food. 


Growing up very well, all those squishy rolls of fat...



 

It felt like she had been with us for ever and now that she had turned 8 months at the time of writing, we prayed that she would grow up tall and healthy, big and strong.